Tag: Divorce

Read: Mark 10:1-12 NLT – Discussion about Divorce and Marriage – Bible Gateway

“But God made them male and female from the beginning of creation. This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one. Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.” Mark 10:6-9 NLT

We are halfway through this year, 2025, and a little more than halfway through our study in the book of Mark, the gospel of Jesus Christ. Going through an entire book forces you to cover every topic within its pages. Some are controversial and subject to debate, especially among Christians, but to skip over these topics would be noticeable and negligent in not presenting all of God’s Word for it is for our benefit. This week we have such a topic, ‘divorce.’ When reading and studying the Bible it is vital to know who the author is. God, the Holy Spirit spoke His Word through men to be recorded for us to know Him, His message of salvation, and how to live our lives. There are many passages in the Bible that are hard to deal with, but they are God’s Words for us live by. As we unpack these difficult passages a clearer understanding will develop with the Spirit’s help. He will guide us into truth and a deeper understanding of God’s love for us. We have learned much over the last six months listening to Jesus teach His disciples in various subjects. Now we will hear Jesus’ teaching on divorce, His Words on the subject.

I realize there are many who are reading this who have gone through the tragedy and heartbreak of a divorce. Living in a broken world, the effects of sin touch each of lives in different ways. Those who know the Lord as savior will find comfort in the God of all Comfort. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort.” (2Cor.1:3 esv) Be assured God is a merciful, loving God who comforts us in our time of need. Whatever your circumstances, the Lord God has not abandoned you. He is right there, the God of all comfort, especially in a divorce.

We begin with a familiar scene. Jesus is once again surrounded by a crowd of people who have gathered to hear Him teach. And once again, the Pharisees show up with another attempt to discredit Jesus. They ask Jesus a question in hopes of turning the crowd against Him making it easier to accuse Him later in their attempts to have Jesus put to death. They asked Him, “Should a man be allowed to divorce his wife?” (Mk.10:2 nlt) It was the divorce of Herod and his remarriage to Herodias John the Baptist spoke against that put him in jail and eventually lose his life. Jesus was in Herod’s ruling district, so this was a perfect set up to catch Jesus saying a word against an unlawful divorce. The Pharisees would then interject Herod’s name as an example. But, as always, Jesus was not going to play their games.

Jesus answered them by asking them a question.  “What did Moses say in the law about divorce?” (Mk.10:3 nlt) Jesus’ ground rules were, what does Scripture say? They replied Moses permitted it. A man was allowed to write a certificate of divorce and send his wife away. What the Pharisees failed to include in their answer were the conditions of Moses’ permission. The Old Testament reference for permission of divorce is found in Deuteronomy 24:1-4. It is important to remember, the Mosaic Law did not command but permitted divorce, and the Pharisees knew this. Divorce was a reality, and permission was granted to protect the wife’s reputation, along with securing women’s rights, and to regulate remarriage. A man had to affirm the reason for the divorce. This would free the wife of suspected wrongdoing or immorality if that was not the case. She would then be free to remarry being released from her husband. There were two schools of thought among the Pharisees concerning divorce in Jesus’ day. The liberal wing, those who followed Hillel, favored that a man could divorce his wife for any reason. Shammai said only adultery was sufficient grounds for a divorce. Now we listen to what Jesus has to say.

“But Jesus responded, ‘He (Moses) wrote this commandment only as a concession to your hard hearts. But God made them male and female from the beginning of creation. This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one. Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.’” (Mk.10:5-9 nlt)

Jesus doesn’t answer according to tradition or to the current culture of His days. He answers through the Word of God explaining God’s intentions from the beginning. Jesus first calls out their hard hearts. Moses’ words weren’t a command but a concession because of their spiritual condition. It was never part of God’s original plan to consider divorce. Jesus goes back to the Old Testament book of Genesis and God’s creation order. (In the beginning male and female, distinctive beings, the man and the woman leave their families, are married, and now are one in the eyes of God.) What God has joined together let no one split apart. This is God’s creation order to be maintained. When followed, a lot of trouble and heartache are avoided.

Later, the disciples brought up the subject again as they usually do when they were alone with Him. Jesus answered, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries someone else commits adultery against her. And if a woman divorces her husband and marries someone else, she commits adultery.” (Mk.10:11-12 nlt) During this time, the Jewish practice of divorce was initiated and settled by the husband, not a court. His written letter of divorce did not release him from God’s law of marriage. So, they were still married, and adultery would ensue for both parties after the fact.

Jesus did note an exception for divorce. Mark did not record it in his book; however, Matthew does in his gospel by quoting Jesus. “I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.” (Mt.19:9 niv) The apostle Paul also notes an exception in writing to the church in Corinth. “(But if the husband or wife who isn’t a believer insists on leaving, let them go. In such cases the Christian husband or wife is no longer bound to the other, for God has called you to live in peace.)” (1Cor.7:15 nlt)

Divorce is a hard subject to address, even more so for one has gone through it. The Lord God has given us His life principles to live by in this sinful world. We don’t always follow His instructions and at times fall into a bad situation. But our God is an all-forgiving God bestowing mercy and grace to all who come to Him in their time of need. Remember He is the God of all comfort who will see you through whatever your circumstances you are in when you surrender to Him, even in a divorce.