“So you, by the help of your God, return, hold fast to love and justice, and wait continually for your God.” Hosea 12:6 ESV
The following statistics are not very comforting and based on the findings, many of you reading this could be among them. According to marriage.com, 40-50% of all marriages in the United States end in divorce. Non-married relationships have the following statistics, 58% of Americans consider their breakups to be dramatic or messy, 40% of long-distance relationships in the U.S. fail, 70% of straight unmarried couples break up within the first year, the average relationship last for two years and nine months before ending, and 85% will experience a breakup in their lifetime. (1)
Broken relationships between couples are heartbreaking for the couple and for their friends and families. And speaking of friends and families, broken relationships occur here as well. The statistics are not the same, but the brokenness is just as real and hurtful. The sad reality is that we live in a broken world and broken relationships are in step with the world. Another sad reality is that Christians are part of these world statistics. There are countless reasons for broken relationships among Christians, but this is not a devotional to survey them or to offer advice, except to say God is in the relationship business.
The most heartbreaking broken relationship one could have is a broken relationship with the Lord God, and they are many reasons for those as well. But, one thing is certain, it’s all on us. If you feel God has moved away from you, the question to ask is, who moved? It takes two to have a relationship and only one to break it. The Lord will never be the one to break it. “If we are unfaithful, he remains faithful, for he cannot deny who he is.” (2Tim.2:13 nlt) The Lord will be waiting for us to return as the father waiting for his prodigal son to return. (Lk.15:11-24) Broken relationships with God are easily repaired, it only takes one of us. It takes us to repent and return to Him. A strong non-fractured relationship with the Lord will help you in any broken relationship you have as you look to Him for advice.
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